When the creatures are happy from a person, then the Almighty is also pleased; and He makes the person successful in both the worlds.

Amongst the saying of our beloved Prophet{PBUH) is: ‘the best amongst the believers is the one with best manners’. Our beloved Prophet{PBUH) won the hearts of non-believers through his best manners even in the days of ignorance.  His manners were so nice that even it would melt the stony hearts of his worst enemies.

The best manners are a way to perfect one’s faith as mentioned by our beloved Prophet{PBUH).  If his manners were so graceful and noble, then it becomes our obligation to adopt them too so that we may succeed in this world and the hereafter.

The best way to increase mutual love is by improving our manners.  That is just because when we care about the self-respect of others, then Allah Almighty fills their hearts with affection for us.  So it is an easy way to please Allah Almighty through pleasing His creation.

These best manners shouldn’t be for any worldly benefits or lust but just for the pleasure of Allah and His Holy Messenger{PBUH)   .  Even it shouldn’t be restricted to Muslims only but spread towards each and every human being on the face of earth regardless of age, social status, gender or color.  We must adopt the best manners and should try to create the better place in other’s heart.  It brings closeness to Allah Almighty and His Messenger{PBUH).When they both are pleased then a person can never fail in any case.  If someone does some aggression to you, then the best way is to ignore him and leave everything onto Allah.  My brothers and sister! If we have to please Allah Almighty, then we must care for the rights and self-respect of others.  When the creation is pleased the Allah Almighty becomes very happy and turns this world into paradise for the best mannered person.

“The weakest in the world is the one who could not control his lusty desires and the strongest is the one who is otherwise” (Hadhrat Abu Bakr Bin Daood).