I belong to a Middle class family. By the grace of Allah, I got married and have a nice life partner. We were blessed with two sons and a daughter. Inspite of our good upbringing, they are getting certain bad habits. They don’t obey and fight on minor issues. I discussed their habit with my wife and we mutually tried to correct them but these bad habits are not decreasing. Peace of life has vanished when I look at my children’s behavior and I am worried about their future.
(Mohammad Jahangir, Rawalpindi)
Answer: Their behavior is concerned with their home or environments or the place where they spent their time. Maybe something is unnoticeable by you that isaffecting their behavior. Closely study and monitor their environment, you will definitely find areas of weakness. In addition to this, Read SURAH KAUSAR 1 time and blow it on your children’s pillow every night before sleeping.
Hurdle in every work
My parents have passed away and I generally feel unsatisfied and unsafe. I don’t find interest in any thing that I do. I have become sensitive due to the talk of people around me. I have not got any suitable proposal and the time is just passing like that. If my parents would have been alive, they would have done something about it. I face hurdle in everything that I do. I am unable to complete any task that I wish to do.
(Rakshanda)
Answer: Allah has asked mankind to never be disappointed. You should have strong faith on Allah and stay firm on your faith and trust. Allah is all powerful and he has the right time of certain things. Whatever happens is in our benefits but we are unable to realize it. So, have complete faith in Him, InshAllah the circumstances will change very soon. Read Last verse of Surah Taouba 11 times after Fajr and Asr prayer with full attention and pray for yourself.
Blood Pressure and Then Paralysis
My father is ill since three years. He had Blood pressure accompanied by the attack of paralysis. The left part of his body is effected and unable to move or walk. He needssupport for all actions. He is under medication and treatment but his condition has not improved. Everyone at home is upset for him.
یَاحَفِیْطُ یَاسَلَامُ
Answer: Recite the above names101 times day and night and blow on water. Let you father drink this water and should also continue his treatment as prescribed by the doctor. Ask you father to read یَاحَفِیْطُ یَاسَلَامُYA HAFEEZO YA SALAAMO as much as possible for him.
Golden time of Life Wasted
My biggest problem is related to my health. I am very weak physically. Mycheeks are squeezed inside; wrists are very thin and got white hair in this young age. I am repenting of whatever I did. I am unable to pray regularly. I am very disappointed. I usually don’t talk to anyone, but if I have to, it becomes a very difficult situation. My mind is trapped with evil thinking and I am unable to sleep at night. My hands are cold even in summer. I feel hopeless wheneverI think of my future. I get upset with the flu that I get often. I am never satisfied with any treatment and often unable to complete the course. I have wasted golden period of my life.
Answer: Your health issues that you have mentioned should be considered, however, your mind health seems to be more effected which is a major issue. Your pessimistic approach/disappointment is affecting your present. All health issue that you have mentioned can be treated by medication ONLY if you regularly follow your medication. Also note that whatever you have mentioned is not related with your age. Your problems and tensions have affected your physical and mental health. You need to develop consistency in your thought and approaches. You will have to leave your disappointment and hopelessness. Have healthy food. Read YA ALLAHO YA RAHMANO یَااَللہُ یَارَحْمٰنُ after fajr and Maghrib prayer while walking for 15-20 minutes. Breathe deeply after Fajr prayer.
Patient of Mental Pressure
I have become a patient of mental pressure and fear due to some problems. Some of my friends are not ready to return my money which I lent them. The situation has got worse.
(Aslam, Karachi)
Answer:Recite 41 times before sleeping every night and blow it on your hand and rub your hands on your face. After Fajr prayer, read YA WADOODO یَاوَدُوْدُone time, blow it on water and drink it. In addition to that, read AyatulKursi and Surah Ikhlaas 7 times and pray toAllah for safety and mercy. Also take part in social welfare activities whether financially or physically. Help the needy people as much as you easily can.
Upset Mind
My mind is always tangled with bad and evil thoughts. These thoughts come even after trying to avoid them. Then I feel like destroying my mind. Purity has vanished from my thoughts and also have problem with remembering things.(Sumayia, Rawalpindi)
Answer: You need to understand that these are just thoughts and should not rule over your heart. Every night before you sleep, sit in the dark and read SURAH FATIHA with full concentration 10 times. And sit silently for 10 minutes after reading. After Fajr prayer read YA ALLAHO YA RAHEEMO یَااَللہُ یَارَحِیْمُ for 10 minutes in your heart while walking. InshAllah you will be benefited.
Delusion & Excessive thoughts:
I am occupied by mistrustfulness thoughts always. My life has become stressful and depressing. I feel scared. I have suffered for a year with mental stress. Sometimes I feel my heart will just stop suddenly; I am unable to sleep peacefully. My life is becoming hopeless with the passage of time.(Soniya, Kasur)
Answer: Recite ALLAH within your heart with full concentration after Fajr prayer for 15 to 20 minutes. Recite SURAH FATIHA and SURAH FALAQ 3 times and blow on your hand and rub them on your face every night before sleeping. InshAllah your fear will vanish.
Extremely impure Thoughts
Since last two years I am occupied with impure thoughts. Sometimes I even get such thoughts for highly respectable persons. I am struggling with such feeling. Sometimes I feel I will die soon. I have lost my willingness. I also get impure thoughts during ablution and praying.(Sadia, Wazira Bad)
Answer:Every night before sleeping Read the below Ayat 66 times and blow on your hands and rub it from your head on all your body.
اِنَّ اللہَ عَلٰی کُلِّ شَیْءٍ قَدِیْرٌ
This Amal should be done for 11 days. In addition to this also make changes to your food such as reduce the intake of salt and sour food. Consume more fruits and vegetable. Reduce spices and meat. Read YA HAYOO YA QAYUMO یَاحَیُّ یَاقَیُّومُ 100 times after every Prayers and continue this for two months. InshAllah all impure thoughts will vanish from your mind.
Satisfied life from every angle:
My life is complete and I am completely satisfied with everything. I have been blessed with everything that I needed. But whenever my wish is fulfilled or I get something that I wanted, I never feel happy. I am unable to share my feelings with anyone. I briefly answer other when I am asked about something. Later I stay upset about my own behavior.(Tehmina, Lahore)
Answer:After Fajrprayer but before sunrise, Read YA WADOODO یَاوَدُوْدُ 11 times, blow it on your hands and rub them on your face.. Also read it once, blow on water and drink it. This Amal should be done at least for a month. In case of constraints, add the days later and complete the whole Amal.
Condition of Fear:
I am unable to remember stuff that I read. If I learn it, I will be unable to recall it especially in front of others like teacher. Another problem is that I often get scared while sleeping even with a small disturbance. I read many Duaas before going to bed but my fear does not decrease.(Noreen, Karachi)
Answer:Follow the below mentioned:
Read YA RABBUR- RAHIM 100 times on few dates and eat them daily. Avoid high salty, sour, spicy food. Breathe deeply in a spacious airy place before going to sleep. This Amal should be repeated at least 11 times with full concentration and should be done after 3 hours of dinner. Continue this for at least two months, InshAllah you will get rid of your fear and mental weakness.
Weird attitude:
We are two sisters and we have many common behavioral attributes. We pray regularly but are lazy to pray on time. We take lot of time for ablution and also use lot of water for it. Different sort of thinking interrupts us while praying. We have become so suspicious that even a drop of water touches our clothes, we start washing it. The condition is getting worse with the passage of time. Everyone at home makes us understand but we are unable to follow.(N, Multan)
Answer: The element of doubt has increased in both of you. Contacting a psychologist and seeking his advice can help. Reduce the intake of salt from your food. Eat Fruits. Stay away from unwanted fear. InshAllah your health will be balanced. Recite the following and blow it on your hands and rub on your face. This Amal should be continued for 40 days.
یَابَدِیْعُ الْعَجَائِبِ بِالْخَیْرِ یَابَدِیْعُ X 11 times
