Other than this you have that power to change your current situation through this energy. If you keep whining about the problems in your life then remember you are responsible for whatever circumstances you are experiencing. You made your own fate. You past make your present and your present makes your future. Whatever you sow in your past is what you're cutting now.  Now if you want to make your future pleasant then stop cursing your problems in the present, face your problems bravely and truthfully.  Keep your own self responsible about your life and keep in mind your own words, actions and thoughts and keep in mind these are the basis of your future. This will bring a huge change in your own point of view. 

Other than this, you have the power and energy to change your present circumstances. You don't have to be a slave to your own destiny. 

Voicing your opinion out loud, standing up for yourself when needed, staying firm and acting mature will help you bring a change. This is how you will succeed. If you solely depend on Allah then you will be free from the struggles and hardships of destiny and HE will guide you through every difficult time. 

 Like this unluckily, being slave moving around to this is not necessary. You get out of this cycle and its control rather than being subjected to the same force. As soon as your level of consciousness wakes up at your grip becomes luck. That is why people with spiritual knowledge are not afraid of luck. They are on a level where they do not affect by the worldly things and situations, but they do affect them.  Unluckily rotate the handle is in the hands of the necessary conditions can change. Destiny is the servant and he is the master. Like us, they are not slaves of fate nor are destiny is their master.