Arrogance Finished It All
Every day Justice
Hakeem Muhammad Tariq Mehmood Majzoobi Chughtai (Phd America) Editor of Ubqari
During my practice one man came to meet me. I was according to my routine checking the patient. He said that I may tell you one thing, write it sometime in your magazine. When I became attentive so he said that most of the time wealth, money and things meaning blessings go through the second generation from one generation with much difficulty, till third generation with very much difficulty and till fourth generation they do very very much less. When I asked a reason of it so he told one incident. He said that the owner of jute mill meaning the mill of putt sin made this mill after doing very much struggle. He himself was very poor man. He gathered the wealth by doing labor and hard work, and then gathered the money with this labor and hard work. One man came that he made a mill. The nature holds his hand and that mill started working. Then unit kept on getting increased. On the other hand the children grew up, became adult and then became the partner of father. Once up on a time his son was sitting on the chair of main office so an old man of eighty five years sat on the chair which was in front of him due to any reason. The son disliked it very much, he told him to get up from this chair at once and used very much strict words for this old man. While getting up the old man gave the message of Allah SWT in low voice that son it seems like that the time of your down fall has come. On these words the son of that business man who was rich and a milliner laughed loudly. This incident got ignored but the old voice made his request written in the diary of sky and it got written. Slowly and gradually the tire started working in the direction of down fall and then the down fall came like this that everything got finished. Because the pride of wealth and the pride of wealthy people is very much popular. The golden secret of nourishment of children: Hazrat Ameer Maavia Razi Allahu Anha asked the secret of nourishment of children from Akhaf Bin Qais Reham ullah Alaih. The secret which he got from the religious training of messenger of Allah SWT before fifteen hundred years from today, the signs of today has proved it very strongly after experimenting it again and again.
1. As much he asks give more than that.
2. Do not put burden on any one more than his strength.
3. If he says something so differentiate between need and desire. If it is a desire so make him understand with love and affection and do not fulfill it and if it is the need so do not be late in it.
He said that the interaction with children should not be of ordering but of requesting meaning your way should not be of order instead the way should be of advice, love and friendship. Instead it should be humble till here that there should be friendly relation and attitude with children. He said that the famous wrestler of the world to whom no one could defeat but it is only the children that his children defeated and made that famous wrestler lose. He said that the children should take out special time for doing dua for mother and father and mother and father should take out time for doing dua for children. Do keep the fast with the intention of training of children, do dua after offering tahajjud and do give charity.