Respected Hazrat Hakeem sahab, Aslam-o-alaikum! You once held the dars in Wah-cantt. Your way of speaking was such that it forced me to pick up a pen. Actually I started reading the Ubqari magazine almost last year but when I read it for the first time, I was at once entranced. I have my own experiences which I would like to share with the readers:
Effectiveness in your speech: I did not have any effectiveness in my speech during any conversation. No matter how truthfully I spoke I was never able to convince anyone. I had read somewhere that before meeting someone by reciting surah Fatiha and then surah Ikhlas three times each the person whom you are speaking too will listen to everything you say intently. Now I have made this my habit. With this, I also read ya-ahad nine times.
Advantages of Istagfar: I have been married for almost seven years but during the first two years of my marriage I did not have a child hence as I was alone at home I began to work. In the morning while going to work in my car it took me almost half an hour to reach there. The rest of the day I could not find any time at all hence only in this half hour I would recite the Istagfar 700 times. I did this for three months and in the fourth month I became pregnant. To this day I have never felt the need to work anymore as I myself disliked doing it. The Istagfar that I recited was
Aside from this whenever I gave a gift to anyone, small or big, I would recite
on to 17 times even if it's an eatable gift. My gift would then be greatly appreciated. Any women who recite surah Tahreem; her husband and children become obedient and the husband always ensures his wife's happiness. This is my applied method. If you recite surah Munafiqoon then no one will be able to talk behind your back unless he or she is a munafiq. Also you will immediately know if someone is talking behind your back and will easily be to identify if something happens against you. My husband praised me that I am easily able to recognize a person by reading his or her heart and face.
