After spending 25 youthful years of his life in earning Riyals in Saudi Arabia, he earned millions until he became known as a wealthy person. Then he tried to settle his children in Pakistan and thought of making them good businessperson. He sent them 3 million rupees at the time when a person having just thirty thousand was considered as wealthy. His money making cost him deprival of three things, firstly, he lost his parents’ prayers whom he had to leave while he was quite young and needed them in every second and every instant of his life and these were their prayers which made it easy for him to step up the ladder of prosperity and comfort. He would phone them occasionally but then there came a time when he could not spare the time to have a brief chat with his old and feeble parents. Then they died and it was so unfortunate that even he could not even attend their funerals too. The second loss that he had to bear were the sighs of his young wife, whose youthful wishes, emotions and hopes could not get fulfilled and she spent a stressful life while he was thinking about just one thing that he has to become wealthy and accumulate wealth. He would visit his family for a few weeks after a couple of years but instead of those days becoming full of happiness and joyful, they would become filled with conflicts and suspicions and the whole time would pass filled with hatred, confusions and separation and then he would return back to his work place abroad. His wife’s sighs of loneliness would ruin his peace of mind as well as his future while he was thinking that he was heading towards prosperity. Dear readers! Just remember that there would only be few wives, who would curse their husbands, but the majority does not even do so rather they spend their life with the sighs of grief. Also, be mindful that the sighs of grief are worse than the curse and their impact sometimes stays there for even the generations. The same case was his as he was continuously receiving his wife’s sighs and these would make him even more tangled up but his only passion was just making money and then accumulate it as much as possible.  The third loss that he had to bear was that about his children’s upbringing.  The role of a wife is just like a builder for the generations while the husbands shields them like an umbrella from all the external challenges. When there is no shield, then even the builder loses its significance and the children without the father are quite seldom groomed as good mannered and civilized, otherwise most of them would stay away from all sorts of gentleness and would adopt a shameless and rebellious life and adopt the worst form of life. All these three factors became the core reason of his destruction i.e. being deprived of his parents’ prayers, the sighs of his wife and the deficiency in grooming his children and this deficiency intensified with each passing day. Whatever he earned, he would send it to his children who would get the huge monies with any effort and being grateful. They were also remained deprived of the closeness to their father and where there is no closeness there is no care for the hard-earned money of their father. The abundance of wealth without any fear of being questioned while full of youthful emotions coupled with inexperience resulted into a complete ruin of everything. That unlucky person is still living baway from home for the last 35 years of his life. He earned huge monies daring the 25 years but could save nothing and he is spending rest of his life as a watchman and earning a handful amount of money. Now his eyes always remain full of tears over the sorrow of his past life that his children turned out to be disobedient and ungrateful but he has forgotten his own behaviour with his parents. Always remember that you will reap only what you sow and this principle stands here since ever except that if Allah Almighty forgives any one and shows His Mercy on to someone but these are just exceptions, this system of reward and punishment will stay here forever. I would just like to request those overseas earners who have gathered huge piles of dollars, pounds and dirhams to take care of these three things at least. It is not disliked to earn the halal sustenance and to yearn for the rizq-e-halal neither i would prohibit them but if there’s any compromise on any of these three things,  then please return back to your home. The worthless money that you will earn in your homeland is far better than those millions and billions, which end up in trouble and destruction, Dear readers, I sometimes write on this topic and remind you that the wealth is not the only thing that improves your generations. There are some other things too, which are a wealth in themselves. All my overseas brothers, who have gone abroad please remember these three factors and my requests,. Although there may be some of them, who would still ignore my call but these are the harsh facts which everyone has to face in their lifetime.